Why nap transitions feel impossible (and how to make them smoother)


Hi everyone,

Nap transitions are one of the most confusing parts of early childhood sleep. One week your baby is taking three predictable naps… and the next week everything is chaos. Naps get shorter, bedtimes get later, and suddenly you’re Googling “is my child dropping a nap??” at 3 AM.

This week on The Sleep Edit, Arielle and I break down the messy reality of nap transitions — from 3→2 naps, 2→1 nap, and eventually the big one: dropping naps entirely. Using real cases, practical sleep math, and what we’ve learned from thousands of families, we explain:

  • The signs your child is actually ready to drop a nap
  • How to tell a true transition from a “nap strike”
  • What typical daytime sleep looks like at different ages
  • Why total 24-hour sleep matters more than any wake-window chart
  • How to shift schedules, cap naps, and prevent bedtime battles
  • What daycare can and can’t control
  • When early morning waking is really a daytime sleep issue

If nap transitions feel like guesswork, this episode will give you a clearer path forward.

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Craig Canapari MD

Craig Canapari MD

I'm a pediatric sleep doctor, author, and in my day job I run the Yale Pediatric Sleep Center. I've been writing about pediatric sleep issues for tired parents since 2012. Join my newsletter to get the best information about sleep problems (and solutions) in children.

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